Cross your heart and hope to die
Keeping secrets is proving to be a challenge for the average person. It can be that lawyers, doctors and Priest in the Roman Catholic are bound by some very strict rules. If you ask an ordinary person to keep a secret, it really is asking way too much.
Now if we look at secrets we expect people to carry to the grave for us, it can be a bit too much to carry. Besides we are humans, and some information’s just bottles up inside of us and we just want to burst. So next time you want to share a secrete with a friend, ask yourself if you are being fare by expecting them to keep such a burning issue to themselves. Please don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with trusting a friend, but don’t judge a friend if they happen to spill the beans, depending to whom though. Perhaps it became too much for them to bear and they just had to burst out and share it.
Maybe next time try telling two people, and alert them both that you share with them, and they should feel free to discuss the issue at hand, should they feel a burning desire. A burning secretes can cause you stress and that is not good for the heart.
Your secret is safe with me…shhhh
so true, you need to know who to trust to keep a secret.
ReplyDelete